Kindness – It costs absolutely nothing 💖

Hey guys, I’m back for my third instalment on my blog, and the topic I’ve chosen to talk about today is Kindness.

Firstly what is kindness??

Kindness is basically the quality of being friendly, generous and considerate. ❤️

It’s remarkable the amount of nasty things people do and say in today’s world that it baffles me as to why people aren’t doing things out of the kindness of their hearts anymore. The smallest little things we do which cost absolutely nothing aren’t being done which is truly sad.

I’m not saying this to sound cocky or anything but I genuinely see one of my biggest qualities being kindness, I just absolutely love the idea of doing something whether it’s big or small for someone and not expect anything in return. I know there are a lot of other people out there whose probably kinder than me but that’s not my point, my point in this post is basically get across for people to try to be nicer and kinder – whether it’s to yourself, your partner, your family or friends and even coworkers and strangers. A simple smile or comment, letting someone go ahead of you in a queue, allowing someone to cross the street without being bitchy about it. If we could all be a little kinder and spread some kindness it would really make the world a better place.

Did you know that there’s actual benefits to being kind? Below I’ve listed a couple of them.

1) We become happier within ourselves and express more positive emotions.

2) Better Relationships – when we’re kind we show someone what they mean to us. Even if it’s a stranger and saying something as small as “your life matters and you are loved” This kind of attention is special and means a lot.

3) Better Health – Studies show that being kind can actually strengthen our immune systems, reduce aches and pains and can also improve cardiovascular health!

4) Better Performance – There’s evidence that proves that kind people(far from being pushovers) perform better whether it be at school, college and work.

So to finish off this weekend on a high or to possibly start this new week off to a high whichever you’d like make a promise to yourself that you’ll try to do something kind whether it be for yourself or for another person, do it and continue to do it. Because after all there can never be too much kindness in the world 💛💛💛

Have a wonderful week everyone,

L xox

Love – Give yourself some more 🥰

Hello again guys,

So basically been thinking over the past couple of days about Love. I’m no expert on it but I’m a huge fan of it like I literally adore the whole idea of love and what it’s capable of doing/showing.

However I do feel what we as humans lack is the ability of self love. I know not everyone will read this and say they don’t love themselves cause I know there are people who do and you guys rock! 🤘 More of us should look at ourselves daily and tell ourselves that we love us because there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that ❤️

Sorry I couldn’t resist the above quote as I’m a huge fan of Winnie the Pooh 😍😍Come on how many of us (myself included) are guilty of giving our love to people who don’t deserve it, think of how much of that love we could’ve used on ourselves when we needed it! It’s time to stop doing that and put yourself first – be selfish for once in your life, if people call you vain for loving yourself that just means that they’re failing to love themselves so please just focus on all the love you can give yourself cause you genuinely deserve it all 💕 It’s time to walk around proud of you and say HELL yes what’s not to love 🙌

Start showing yourself more love and give yourself less criticism/hate, Lord knows we get enough of that from others throughout our lifetime. But if we love ourselves enough that hate/criticism won’t matter half as much.

If like me your struggle is to show yourself some self love, please follow the commandments below ❤️

Remember don’t give your love to people who don’t deserve it – You owe yourself that ❤️

Hope you guys enjoy,

L 😘 xo

Don’t Compare, Just do you❤️

Hey Guys 👋

I’m absolutely terrified writing this now thinking to myself whether anyone will read this or find it any way beneficial, anyhoo I don’t care because I’m still going to write it!

As this is my first of hopefully many blogs I just wanted to start off by just reassuring anyone who may need it to please stop comparing yourself and your life to others. This will only make you miserable because God knows I’ve been there and done it and can say it made me so unhappy.

Yes some people may seem to have something you may desperately want but you could have something else that they might want. We are always quick to compare every little thing we almost forget to take a look at what we got and sometimes we take these things for granted and in the end only when these things are taken away from us is when we truly appreciate what we had.

So if you take anything away from this little message please let it be this – You are Awesome just the way you are, Your worthy, beautiful and you are loved ❤️

Bye for now,

L xo